04 August 2009

Where The Hell Have I Been?

It's funny, I started posting like a madman on the Cafe and then...nothing, for quite some time. There's a reason.

There's always a reason!

My reunion with my Ex has cooled to the point of ice-age. There are a lot of reasons for that but I am not comfortable listing them here, even with my now limited audience. Fancy that! I used to bare my soul, evil and all for the entire world to see back in the J-Land days but now, after a few lessons learned over the years, I have been schooled in the art of discretion. Oh, I'm sure a few items will slip out here and there but for the moment, where Joe is concerned, the less said, the better.

On the work front, I have been at odds with my manager concerning my Friday nights. He's been unhappy with the turn-out (as have I) and he wants to sit down with me to see if there's anything we can do to salvage the event. Now, while all this has been going on and I haven't been behind the bar, Friday's have gotten better and better, as I had thought they would. It has taken time to build a crowd but they are coming. Of course, now I am on the outs with my boss so who knows what's going to happen.

I do! (But it's another thing I am not at liberty to say. Don't worry, you'll all be the first to know!)

My mother came for a day trip to the island of love and it was WONDERFUL! I'm going to write about the trip later today, I just wanted to post something to remind myself that I'm alive.

Off to the flower shop.


  1. He's alive ... he's alive! A little difficult thinking of you writing by the laws of discretion for to long love. Like all of us we journal here with little to show in the way of a following. It's the community aspect thats missing ... I have not found this to be a very warm and inviting neighborhood so far and I have to force myelf to write here. I hate that. Happy Wednesday my friend and glad to hear Mom was in town.
    *** Coy ***

  2. Yeah, just where the heck have you been young man? ;)

    I know what you mean about having to censor yourself on here. People find things out, take things the wrong way, blah blah blah.

    Hope last night was a better Friday.

  3. Oh Mortimer! So glad you've learned some discretion ... but I wonder ... is life more or less interesting now? LOL

    Glad you had a nice visit with your mother ... now, on to the juicy details!

    And I am with Coy. It's not much of a community here, although many of us ARE HERE, but it's just not the same. :::sigh::: I find myself wanting to share, but struggling to write.

  4. Always happy to know you are alive! I know what you mean about limited audiences. Not quite the same and much more revealing out here than on aol. Glad you had a nice visit with your Mom. Hope all works out with the rest.